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Exercise – the age factor

Son, I was out walking again today. My brain almost refuses to accept the age of my body. “Come on,” the brain says, ” if you had not been so lazy you would not be in this mess.” My body argues in return, “You are Management, production has lagged because of inept management.” I feel […]

12Nov2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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12 Step Programs – maturing over time

Son, The Alcoholics Anonymous movement was off and running with the publication of their basic text, ‘Alcoholics Anonymous.’ This text has taken on biblical proportions within the movement and is referred to affectionately as the Big Book. The movement spread throughout Ohio and to New York City. In 1938 John D. Rockefeller gave the movement […]

12Nov2007 | | Comments Off on 12 Step Programs – maturing over time | Continued
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12 Step Programs, the beginning of A.A.

Son, Let’s talk about 12 Step Programs, Treatment Modalities, personal tantrums, drug addiction, the criminal paradigm, and hope for the future. You have entered a world of faith, a particular faith. My response is one of a pleased parent. Your choice of a mainstream denomination pleases me. A 12 step program accepts a variety of […]

12Nov2007 | | Comments Off on 12 Step Programs, the beginning of A.A. | Continued
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Exercising back to health

Son, When I was 30 years old I ran a 15K race organized by our local Parks Department. They also had a 5K and a 10K run simultaneously. The reason for a 15K was because that was the distance between the North Side Park and the South Side Park, traveling along the parkway. 15 kilometers […]

10Nov2007 | | Comments Off on Exercising back to health | Continued
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“Amen”, and “You got that right”

Son, We have written about motivational speaking, the ministry, teaching, and political stump speeches. They are not much different. At least not from the presenter’s point of view. Every successful presenter must read and react to his or her audience. In a recent post you wrote about going to see Hillary Clinton at Simpson College […]

10Nov2007 | | Comments Off on “Amen”, and “You got that right” | Continued
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Hillary Clinton at Simpson College

Dad, Last weekend I went to Simpson College in Indianola, Iowa to attend a weekend class. On Saturday, I was in the building next to the gymnasium where Hillary was to give her speech. I slipped out of class and went to watch. She is a dynamic speaker and a brilliant politician. When she came […]

9Nov2007 | | Comments Off on Hillary Clinton at Simpson College | Continued
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I walked today – and I was careful

Son, This chronicling my new found attempt to get into shape has not gotten off to the start I had hoped for. There are bumps in the road of new exercise programs. Particularly if one has lived a sedentary life for about five years – and has begun the steep descent into the depths of […]

9Nov2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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Hate Crimes, revisiting the Jena 6

Son, Some people have responded in a rather angry fashion to a post I wrote on hate crimes. Some people really oppose the idea of hate crimes. But we use descriptive words like ‘hate’ to further identify and segregate a number of offenses. When a man beats his wife – it is not just assault […]

9Nov2007 | | Comments Off on Hate Crimes, revisiting the Jena 6 | Continued
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Going for a walk – I hope

Son, I have been sick all week. After my strenuous walk last week – the violation of self thing – I became ill. I canceled all of my planned exercise for the week while I recuperated. Yesterday I thought that perhaps I had a minor heart attack while exercising. I thought I might have been […]

9Nov2007 | | Comments Off on Going for a walk – I hope | Continued
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Podcasts

Occasionally Bryan likes to put a podcast together. Here is our work to date: the fireside chat -episode 001

6Nov2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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Government up side down

Son, My friends call me a liberal. That is because I live in a small town in the midwest where everyone hates hate crimes, and anyone who supports them. There is a real dichotomy in the lexicon of liberal and conservative. I am opposed to the Federal Government having more power of surveillance on the […]

5Nov2007 | | Comments Off on Government up side down | Continued
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Exercise – violation of self

Son, As you know, I have been trying to get back into shape – just one more time in my life. My age plays a role and I do not yet understand that role. My brain thinks I am 30 years old – my body is not cooperating. The last five years has seen me […]

4Nov2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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Immigration

The Fireside is an online magazine. Here are some articles on immigration: Where is Woody Guthrie? Christians for Comprehensive Immigration Reform Immigration – Underground Railroad English – a Mandatory Language Closed Borders – Unworthy Immigrants Dead Immigrants

4Nov2007 | | Comments Off on Immigration | Continued
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Blogging – Journalism with attitude

Son, This morning, Sunday, November 4. 2007, CNN’s Reliable Sources is having a discussion on blogging. You and I have been grappling with the issues of blogging and journalism for months. The professional journalists on CNN all write blogs. It seems the major news outlets are beginning to embrace the world of blogging. What are […]

4Nov2007 | | Comments Off on Blogging – Journalism with attitude | Continued
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The Jesuits at Sillary – imposing culture

Son, Sometimes we are a little hard on contemporary Christian fundamentalists. We don’t like their aggressive evangelism – their attempts to force their culture on us. That is a statement of perspective – their perspective might be that they are trying to save us from going to hell. Christianity has as rich history of abusing […]

3Nov2007 | | Comments Off on The Jesuits at Sillary – imposing culture | Continued
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Walk Fast, Run Slow – but exercise

I am beginning my third month of irregular exercise. It is irregular because I get going pretty good and then I over do it. Then I have to take extra days off to heal. My brain will not cooperate – it thinks my body is young and healthy and strong. The memories of two-hour racquetball […]

2Nov2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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Pandemic disease, test and immunize

Son, Drug Addiction is Pandemic. I made this case in an earlier post. Assuming this is true – what are we going to do about it. Pandemics are not new to the world. The past one hundred years have seen medical advances that have eradicated many pandemic illnesses. I think of Smallpox and polio – […]

2Nov2007 | | Comments Off on Pandemic disease, test and immunize | Continued
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A Proud Man and His Family – 1950’s

Son, Your grandfather is a proud man. My mother stayed home to take care of the seven children – he worked two jobs to provide the basic necessities. He would never take a handout. Suggest government peanut butter and cheese to him and you might have a little squabble. I said that wrong – your […]

2Nov2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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The Enola Gay –

Son, A death yesterday footnoted one of the most horrific events in the history of man. The death was of Paul Tibbits, he was 92. Mr. Tibbits piloted the Enola Gay into destiny – He and his crew dropped the first atomic bomb used in warfare. The idea of using such a weapon and the […]

2Nov2007 | | Comments Off on The Enola Gay – | Continued
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“Thank God for Dead Soldiers”

Son, The distorted logic used by some is maddening. It is hilarious when poked at by the likes of Mark Twain who said, “I left the South and they lost the war.” Two separate events connected by insanity. Humor is found in the ludicrous and the absurd – Mark Twain understood this. This failure of […]

1Nov2007 | | 3 comments | Continued
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Drug Addiction is Pandemic

Son, There is a pandemic in America – and around the world. It is the scourge of drug addiction. Modern medicine, let’s say the last 200 years, has developed some of the most powerful pain killers and anesthetics ever imagined. These have served our populace well in the development of modern medical practice – and […]

1Nov2007 | | Comments Off on Drug Addiction is Pandemic | Continued
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Blunt Abortion

The Governor of Missouri is Matt Blunt, son of a Missouri Congressman of a similarly appropriate name. The headline in today’s paper is “Blunt task force examining abortion affects on women.” How appropriate. This is a good article – good because it slants in my direction. Apparently Governor Blunt has formed a task force of […]

29Oct2007 | | Comments Off on Blunt Abortion | Continued
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Police Pursuit – Losing Humanity

Son, This has been a sad week for me. As you know I have worked in the social service industry, after retiring from a career in information systems and finance. It is one of those thing us ‘baby-boomers’ do – giving back something that was given to us. The social service field is really tough. […]

27Oct2007 | | Comments Off on Police Pursuit – Losing Humanity | Continued
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The Language of Poverty

Son, There is a wonderful article in this morning’s local newspaper. The headline is “The Language of Poverty.” It is written by a local reporter and it is well done. The subject matter and the source of information both inspirational. I will probably quote much of the article here and it can speak for itself. […]

27Oct2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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Extreme Moralists

Son, Everything is extreme. Everything is George W. Bush, “You are either with us or against us.” Even the two opening sentences of this post are all or nothing. We are in an age of the ‘extreme moralist.’ I am talking about both left-wing and right wing, and the fringe causes that no one wants […]

27Oct2007 | | Comments Off on Extreme Moralists | Continued
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A Bag of Slime –

Son, A day or two ago I wrote a piece I called “Bloggers – Op-Ed on Steroids.” My notion was that bloggers, including myself, are uninhibited writers – absent the politically correct urine and vinegar. Bloggers come right out and speak their mind with no editorial over site. I continue to believe there is an […]

27Oct2007 | | Comments Off on A Bag of Slime – | Continued
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Blogging – Op-Ed on steroids

Son, This world of blogging is fascinating. Large audiences can be reached with the push of a button. Bloggers rarely report the news – rather we just comment on the news. Sometimes the word ‘comment’ does not quite describe what is really happening. Blogging has become a vent for the anger of a frustrated populace. […]

26Oct2007 | | 2 comments | Continued
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“gang” fights and small town living

Dad, In a previous post, you mentioned defining gangs in our home town, or, rather, the resistance to defining a “gang”. I remember once when I was young and impressionable (“the good old days”), I was hanging out with some friends one night in the parking lot of the Godfather’s Pizza in our home town. […]

26Oct2007 | | Comments Off on “gang” fights and small town living | Continued
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Al Gore – polarizing Global Warming

Son, You recently did a post that featured a video by John Stossel. The video was clearly against the concept that man is contributing to Global Warming. You and I talked before you created this post and you and I both agreed that this is not a time for finger pointing – it is a […]

25Oct2007 | | 3 comments | Continued
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So Dumbledore is Gay – So What?

Son, J.K. Rowling has done it again. She has successfully presented a social atrocity in a very human manner. Last week she was asked if Headmaster Dumbledore of the Hogwarts School of Wizardry was gay. She replied, “Yes.” Then followed with something like – that will probably get people angry again. Why? The answer is […]

24Oct2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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Define “Gang”

Son, There was a shooting last week in your home town, where I live today. Two rival groups of people gathered on opposite street corners, taunting and trash talking. Someone fired a gun. The police report that several more shots were fired from both crowds. No one was injured, although there were bullet holes in […]

23Oct2007 | | Comments Off on Define “Gang” | Continued
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Blogging – an artform

Son, Art has influenced human endeavor since the first cave man scratched his charred stick on the cave wall. This spark of imagination, ignited by primitive desire, generates the energy of human change and growth. Homer wrote the Iliad and the Odyssey. The Hebrews wrote the Pentateuch. The Ancient Greeks knew the value of art […]

23Oct2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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The fearists of Climate Change…

Dad. I watched the video that you sent. I am adding it below for those of us who are not you and me. As I said in a previous post, I respect Al Gore for what he has accomplished, and I encourage everyone to do his or her part to live responsibly. This video points […]

23Oct2007 | | 6 comments | Continued
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Health Care Costs – you get what you pay for

Son, I was just watching the History Channel. The program was on ‘dangerous cargoes.’ One of the cargoes they showcased was ‘radioactive pharmaceuticals.’ Well, I guess that would qualify as dangerous. But the costs and benefits caught my attention. These radioactive pharmaceuticals are central to the ability to diagnose and treat a variety of cancers. […]

22Oct2007 | | Comments Off on Health Care Costs – you get what you pay for | Continued
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War Profiteering – Republicans delight

Son, Our local newspaper is decidedly Republican. Their choice of syndicated columnists and their regular headlines reflect this bias. It is not as if they are trying to hide anything – their editorial page is very clear about their bias. And they are righteously proud of it. The loss of the meritorious values of the […]

22Oct2007 | | 2 comments | Continued
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Making mulch – saving the planet

Son, This awareness of Global Warming is a real pain in the neck. At every turn I am reminded that I must be more resourceful. Life was so much easier when blundering around in ignorance. So, here is my current problem, I receive a great deal of junk mail. What are you gonna do? I […]

22Oct2007 | | 4 comments | Continued
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George Will – hold your conservative horses

Son, I like to read George Will’s column. I love the way he uses words; he is a true craftsman in the art of writing. His intellect is obvious. And I almost never agree with his message. His column of today, Sunday, October 21, is especially lost in his attempt to attack liberals. Mr. Will […]

21Oct2007 | | Comments Off on George Will – hold your conservative horses | Continued
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Rush Limbaugh – the need for acceptance

Son, The human condition of social acceptance has overridden basic moral values. For centuries governments, churches, and the literary/art community have served to help define a set of moral standards, to articulate them, to promote the clarity of civilized man. There is purpose. As social creatures by nature and nurture, we all have a need […]

20Oct2007 | | Comments Off on Rush Limbaugh – the need for acceptance | Continued
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Traits of Self Control

Son, I continue with my series on behavior – I remain inspired by the efforts of Bill Cosby. Again – I found some old literature, not of my origin. This paper is like many others, it has been copied and recopied – it has served others. Perhaps it has more life. Self Control: 1. Has […]

19Oct2007 | | Comments Off on Traits of Self Control | Continued
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Reckless Attitude Indicators

Son, I continue my diatribe on behavior, inspired by Bill Cosby. Many of us venture out into the world with fundamentally reckless attitudes that get us into trouble. The real dilemma is that the reckless attitude itself denies that it exists – that is a reckless attitude. I found some literature on this – again […]

19Oct2007 | | Comments Off on Reckless Attitude Indicators | Continued
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Rules of Dysfunctional Families

Son, To follow-up on my last post I will present some of the rules of dysfunctional families. This is not advocacy – just observations. This is not original with me – I found it somewhere, copied many times over, worn and crooked print on old paper. Rules Projected in the Dysfunctional Family 1. Judge others […]

19Oct2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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Inspired by Bill Cosby

Son, Bill Cosby is a funny guy. Funny humorous, not funny wacko. He has taken up the mantle of leadership for his ‘brothers.’ Mr. Cosby is on a crusade to help raise the African-American community to a higher standard of living – higher standards of family values, of education, of responsibility, and of economic prosperity. […]

19Oct2007 | | Comments Off on Inspired by Bill Cosby | Continued
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Excellent Blogging

Son, So we have been talking, and I wrote a post this morning, about where to take our blog. It occurred to me that we should be aware of fundamentals of excellence in whatever we do. Last summer (2006) I attended the National Rural Institute on Alcohol and Drug Abuse at the University of Wisconsin […]

19Oct2007 | | Comments Off on Excellent Blogging | Continued
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Tornado Alley

Son, My home town is on the fringe of Tornado Alley. You grew up here. Now the tornadoes that come through here get to you about five or six hours later. Technology advances, we are more able to predict bad weather, and we are more aware of the need to pay attention to the forecasts. […]

19Oct2007 | | Comments Off on Tornado Alley | Continued
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The bloggers market, finding a niche’

Son, You and I have had some success with this blog. First and foremost to me is the opportunity to talk with you every day – no father is more blessed. We started this thing so others could join in our father and son chats. It may be difficult for some to believe – but […]

19Oct2007 | | 3 comments | Continued
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Water For Elephants

Dad, I just finished reading this book. It is one of those books that leaves you a little empty when it is over because you won’t get to spend time with those characters anymore. I wish that I would get a postcard from them. “Water for Elephants” is a beautiful story and an impressive bunch […]

19Oct2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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Gas Grills and intentional living

Dad, I was having a conversation with my friend who was in town for a visit this weekend. We were discussing my gas grill. I bought a gas grill because I did some research on the most responsible way to cook meals. When you use your oven in the summer time, often the heat from […]

18Oct2007 | | 4 comments | Continued
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Psychcentral – help for troubled people

Son, We have had some comments this week from someone at an internet place called Psychcentral. I have just been to their site – I was even attracted by one of their blogs and wrote a comment to some poor desperate soul. I am impressed with Psychcentral – they have a great service. I know […]

18Oct2007 | | 1 comment | Continued
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Blogging Ethics – Internet Ethics

Son, Historically, the common denominator of civilized man has been the rule of law. Without law we have anarchy. Without law we have chaos. Without law it is every man for himself. The internet is governed only by the laws or limitations of technology. The internet is a vast and open frontier. People like to […]

18Oct2007 | | 2 comments | Continued
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Bush – acclimated to WAR!

Son, President Bush is scaring me. He had a news conference today and he said, “If you are interested in preventing World War III then you should be interested in Iran not having nuclear weapons.” He has said, “We’ve got a leader in Iran that says he wants to destroy Israel.” Is a threat against […]

17Oct2007 | | 1 comment | Continued